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the only advice i can give is follow your own i first got into my relationship i did some research and what i found on google wasnt positive .stuff like"he'll never be serious about you because your not iranian" or "youll never meet his family"..hey look at us now...be true to yourself and follow your heart..this helps!!! Lots of them end up marrying girls from different backgrounds.
I have met bf's mom after 3 months, me and his mom get along so well. Lots of ppl say persian guys will not treat u seriously if your not an iranian girl. Maybe some of them are, but most persian guys i know have no preference at all.
I didn’t want to turn playtime into work time but the opportunity seemed too ripe to relinquish. How often do we get to share a beer and actually try to understand each other? I told them that I was writing about dating cultures in different countries. But you know, everything forbidden is more interesting.” I asked how dating is different for them in Istanbul than it is back home and both men instantly replied that it was way easier to date back home in Iran. ” One said and laughed, but then added more seriously, “Maybe they feel more freely. But because they are so repressed, they go to extremes to compensate. They’re totally dressed up and made up and with the hair… They’ve got like three boyfriends, they’re always screwing around…
They agreed to interviews but definitely, absolutely did not want me to use their names; they said it could end up preventing them from re-entering Iran at all. When you’re in a closed place and you’re under pressure, you want to experience something that is illegal.” The other chimed in, “Yes, I have had 15 girlfriends and I’m only 30! But here, it’s much harder to get girls.” I asked if girls in Iran have sex before marriage and one of the men speculated that 10 or 15 years ago only 10 percent of girls would, but that now the percentage is probably closer to 90.
I was genuinely shocked, and tried to play it off like I wasn’t such an ignorant American thinking that Persian women were just bundled up virginal victims.
They were starting to catch on to my astonishment and were all smiling.
I think it was because he let his anger get the best of him. She also told me when he got mad at her he would do very strange things.
Its just when we argued that he said a lot of nasty things. For example..extravagant weddings spending way too much money on unnecessary things.
Culturally they are just raised this way - women own the home; men have the freedom in society. They are deeply religious, so if you giving up the sex before marriage, he will look at you as a ho and not wife material, plus most want you to convert to Islam if you become his wife.
Sorry gals - but my perspective, unless you are willing to be subjugated to an iranian man, don't bother to start a relationship. In general - they have a worse old-boys-club than americans; are absolutely across the board m-e-a-n when anything goes against their opinion or what they think is right.
Culturally they are just raised this way - women own the home; men have the freedom in society. They also - especially my guy- get on the "you are so disrespectful" soap box, harping on and on about how bad americans are, yet never own up to their own behavior.
I think it does not matter what race he or she is, the most important thing is you guys truly love each other. Lots of them end up marrying girls from different backgrounds.
I have met bf's mom after 3 months, me and his mom get along so well.
This is not an “honour” issue; your own insecurities are getting the best of you.